
The Story
This is the story of how Strategic Thriving® came to be.
Not as a concept, but as a lived experience.
I did not start here.
Today, my work spans medicine, education, and writing.
I teach, I facilitate, and I write. About language, about lived experience, and about what it actually means to move through life with clarity and intention. But before all this, my story looked very different.
Years ago, I found myself in a foreign country, alone with two babies, and starting over.
Life had pushed me to the edge, but something inside me refused to stay there.
I discovered the power of gratitude, a shift so profound it changed everything. I learned to see my experiences as lessons, not limitations, and extend the same love and compassion to myself that I gave to others. I started to unlearn patterns that kept me stuck, and ever so slowly, I began to step into my true power, not as a survivor, but as a woman who chooses, daily, to thrive.
That choice led me here to supporting and empowering women who have survived hell and are ready to step into power, joy, and abundance.
I’ve come to understand what it truly means to start over, and I know the power of support, strategy, and self-trust. And so, I pay homage to the many Japanese women who lifted me up when I had no strength left. Without their unflinching support and kindness, I would not be here today.
'力尽きそうだった私を支えてくれた多くの日本人女性たちに、心から敬意を表します。
彼女たちの揺るぎない支えと優しさがなければ、今の私はここにいなかったでしょう。'
I also believe in the power of safe spaces, in creating communities where women are seen and valued. Where women are uplifted. And I know that when we shift from survival to Strategic Thriving®, we change not just our lives, but the world.
This space is a part of that.
Welcome to Dr. Flo’s Place. Where Queens Thrive
DEDICATION
To the loving memory of
Ma. Florence James and Ma. Eneayi Ochoga.
Great Women of Faith and Fortitude,
to whom Family was everything.
My beloved GrandMothers.